deletion of a post

i deleted my last post. it wasn't the reflection of a bad day or a bad experience but it came off all wrong, maybe too harsh and it would take me too long to explain!! it wasn't meant to be that kind of post, but i'm glad it was for just a moment. it made me realize some things. so, i will re-phrase entirely. being pregnant has caused me to be extremely appreciative of my life and what i have. it makes me appreciate even more than ever my husband and how hard he works and how dedicated he is to our family. i have not been the emotional basket case i thought i would have been (well maybe just a little,) instead i am just thankful. so, because it is almost christmas, i just want people to be thankful. put your judgements and your petty thoughts aside and be thankful. for your family first and foremost. for their health and happiness. because they are your family!! for your friends. because without them we'd be lost! and for whatever else you want to be thankful for. i don't care what it is, just do it!